If girls want to get the attention of the boys they like, they need to be quiet!

It is easier for women to chase men than for men to chase women because men are visual creatures. As long as a woman is not extremely unattractive, certain parts of her body can arouse a man's libido. For example, large breasts, a small waist and nice hair. Even if you don't have all of these features, you can still use some means to chase your own god.

Let's start with the hardware chapter. There's a saying that there are no ugly women, only lazy ones.

Although we do not live in Korea, their contemporary make-up technology is so advanced that they do not need to primp themselves; they find professional people from outside to clean them up, so that their appearance looks beautiful and high-end.

If you are planning a long-term battle with your partner, you should try to transform your body and get closer to the ideal. Legs are especially important in this transformation.

Some time ago, I surveyed no less than a hundred men. Eighty per cent of men look at a woman's legs first, then her breasts and finally her face. That's why men like black silk so much — they actually like the legs behind it.

The core of the hardware is pitching in and not being lazy.

And again with the software. Men conquer the world and get everything. Women conquer men and get everything in the world.

To put it bluntly, the core competitiveness of women is their innate tenderness and motherhood.

Men may seem tough, but they are actually fragile. Beneath the seemingly Iron Man-like exterior is a soft heart.

Women have to use their natural characteristics bit by bit to reach that soft spot in men.

Sometimes you have to be gentle and maternal.

One of my friends, a second-generation heir, is a very big man. All of his former girlfriends were top-class. The most important criterion for him when choosing a spouse is that she be a scourge. A few days ago, he married his girlfriend and we were all shocked. No breasts, no legs, no face.

At the pre-wedding singles night, after a few glasses of wine, we started chatting.

Me: “Your future daughter-in-law isn't bad.”

He: 'Do you think she's just average?'

We're too familiar with each other. Pouting up the arse, putting on a show, not needing to smell to know what it smells like.

I: ‘Shit, you've discovered it all.’ I still have to play dumb.

He: 'I know what you guys think. No way! At first, just take her as a friend — nothing special.' I saw her crying secretly on the side, so I went over to comfort her and found out that it was her birthday. Her parents are divorced and she said that every time it's her birthday, she wishes she had a whole family. I saw how heartbroken she was, so I hugged her.”

When I heard that, I also thought it was quite heartbreaking. If it were me, I would probably do the same.

He took a sip of wine and continued, “Later, I found that she is quite good at taking care of people. I like her more and more.”

So, men chasing women need to be bold, while women chasing men need to be silent.