How can you take things further with a girl on a second date?

 The first date is about getting to know each other, so we can show a little restraint and euphemism. The second date, however, is different. It's about development and taking the relationship to the next level!

　　So on the second date, we don't have to be so preoccupied. After all, if a girl agrees to a second invitation, it proves that she must have a good feeling about you. Therefore, we can chat about appropriate topics and take the lead in the dating process.

　　However, we still have to remember that you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, so we have to take things slowly and advance the relationship step by step.

　　First of all, we should start with some small talk.

Dating Places:

　　To start this date off, it's best to leave the choice of venue to the girl.

　　Let her decide what she likes to eat and drink, where she likes to shop, and so on!

　　This shows her that we are already good friends and that we can enjoy each other's company over food and activities.

　　The idea is to make the girl feel that you are sincere and passionate.

　　Having said that, if the girl wants to take our relationship to the next level after the initial date, why shouldn't we do the same?

　　If we want to get to know each other, we need to:

　　Show your true self!

　　Compared to the first date, where we had to make a good impression, the second time we have to try to show her our true selves. So, chat about our hobbies, our lives and our values — things we can talk to her about in depth.

　　Showing her a few of our flaws is also a good strategy!

Don't always try to maintain the perfect image. In fact, showing yourself off to others is not conducive to the development of the relationship.

　　No one is perfect, and praising yourself too much will make you seem arrogant.

　The only people without shortcomings are saints. But do saints really exist? They are a fantasy created by humans with beautiful qualities, sitting high above in the clouds and exuding an ethereal light. Would girls love such a fictional person?

Real men have emotions, and she may fall in love with you.

　　Note: Don't reveal all your secrets to her straight away. That's not being open and honest, and it doesn't mean that you're not hiding anything from her.

　　It's more like treating her like a tree hole.

　　Also, just because she can accept some privacy and secrets when you're close doesn't mean she'll be willing to accept them when you're still getting to know each other.

　　Once we understand each other better, we can officially prepare to take the relationship to the next level!

　　We can do it like this:

　　Flirt with each other!

The first time we ask for attention to detail and to behave in a normal way is to show respect for the girl and make a good impression. Then comes the second date, where we need to be honest and see if we deserve to be single.

　　If you are too honest and follow the rules, the girl will misunderstand and think that you don't have any romantic feelings for her, and the relationship will fall into the friendship zone.

　　In fact, on the second date, we can try to get physical, but don't be impatient. Direct hands and feet will put girls off.

　　I'll teach you a little trick:

　　Stare into her eyes and reach out to ruffle her hair.

　　In general, girls will understand that you have feelings for her if you make a move, and if she is willing to develop a relationship with you, she will accept your behaviour.

　　But what if she refuses?

　　Then it may be necessary to test whether she is shy or does not want to develop a relationship.

　　For example, if the girl is practising painting during this period, we can say, 'You didn't say you wanted to take me to your painting place to see it?'

　　You could also invite her to your usual place.

　　If she agrees to our small request, it means she is open to us.

　　However, if she says no, then she may not be interested in you and there may not be the possibility of developing a romantic relationship; it may only become pure friendship.

　　If a girl says yes, then there is room for us to upgrade our relationship.

　　Secret technique for upgrading the relationship: private space to lead

　　What kind of private space?

　　Your own home.

Don't get me wrong; taking a girl to a private space doesn't necessarily mean that you want to do anything with her. It's just that a private space allows two people to be alone together without any distractions, which can help to take our relationship to the next level.

　　After arriving at your home, prepare the atmosphere:

　　Play some songs with lyrical, long and ambiguous content.

　　Have some red wine ready and talk to her about past relationships while you sip it.

　　Yes, these emotional songs can touch people's hearts. Describe your previous emotional experiences to the girl, whether happy or sad. This will stir her emotions and make her feel a little more relaxed.

　　Remember: if you want to interact with girls who also want to take the initiative to speak for themselves, don't directly ask the girl about her love life. Simply talk about your own feelings and see if she responds. It's OK.

　　If she is willing to share things with you, it means she has been touched by you.