The Scumbag Training Manual: How to Become a Qualified Scumbag

Firstly, we need to understand what a 'scum man' is!

The Baidu encyclopaedia defines 'scum' as selfish, irresponsible men who are good at asking for things and playing with other people's feelings. This definition is very clear, but now let's redefine the meaning of 'scum'.

By selfishness, I mean investing in yourself — investing all your resources, such as money, time and energy, purely in yourself. I think it's perfectly fine to do so before you meet the right person!

From the perspective of a scumbag, being good at asking for things means guiding women to pay for themselves. Ordinary men only know how to treat women well in the hope that they will like them because of it, but in fact this is not the case. Scumbags are good at guiding women to pay, so they can always make women fall in love with them and not be able to pull themselves out of it!

As for the irresponsible and those who play with other people's feelings, I think they should be screened out. Those AB prodigal women who play with other people's feelings should suffer a little, after all, what goes around comes around. When they squeeze the value out of men, they should realise that there will be a day when they will be treated the same way! Of course, we need to protect the CD women and let them go. Why not get along with the right woman when you meet her?

That's what I define as a scumbag. We can use the 'little scumbag' routine to make women love themselves. There's nothing wrong with being a man who loves himself and his woman.

Firstly, you need the right mentality.

First of all, you need to be confident. A man with a pleasing personality is not good at being a scumbag; they will only meet high-scoring girls and then constantly lose themselves. They cannot help but be good to women and do not dare to express their own feelings.

I remember a good example on Zhihu about unconfident men. He said that unconfident men on the bus are afraid to shout, 'Master, stop!' When people shout at the same stop, their hearts will still be more grateful! This is a very typical example of a lack of self-confidence. I have to say that I used to have social phobia and was indeed afraid of such a thing. I slowly recovered my self-confidence and learnt to speak up for myself. Start your journey of self-improvement!

So it's very simple: we need to get rid of low self-esteem and restore core self-confidence. This is the first step in cultivating self-worth!

Secondly, love yourself!

Understanding the definition of selfishness is very important. Without it, we have no sense of self and no ability to get along with others or learn to live for ourselves! You have to learn how to invest the money you earn in yourself. For example, if you're not happy with your body, you should spend time exercising. If you feel you have nothing to say and no knowledge, it's recommended that you read a lot every day!

Often, we say that we don't know how to be humorous, can't express our emotions, can't impress girls and can't communicate. Have you ever thought that it's a problem with your cultural level or your ability to organise language? You don't know how to use language and text to describe scenes! This may be your sister's problem!

We should divide our time into three segments: eight hours for sleep, eight hours for work, and eight hours for self-improvement. As the saying goes: 'Eight hours to sleep, eight hours to work, eight hours to grow!' How you organise your time each day determines how you will grow.

In the realm of skill cultivation, it's really quite simple: who do you want to be? Then decide how you will spend your time! It's a very simple truth!

Let me start with an example from my own life: my private tutor!

One of them is a designer. He works in New York City. He's a typical geek with no social circle. Leadership and male leadership are not things that suit him personally. It's like an average guy in his 30s who's an engineer learning how to pick up girls from a teacher!

First, I let him decide what kind of person he wanted to be and what kind of life he wanted to lead. At first, I let him think for himself. Later, he couldn't imagine his future — it was very limiting! Then I set him some goals! For example, he could be a wage earner who jumps to work for a company with a high salary level, or if he is good enough, he could take orders and live for himself as a freelancer.

He chose the second option. Okay, so this is your ideal life, and my aim is to help you plan for your future. Once you have visualised your goal, the first step is to execute it. I help my students to specifically increase their value and sense of worth by using the techniques I talk about in my private lessons!

So, he's looking for a long-term partner, right? In that case, our approach needs to be simpler, more natural and more authentic. Look at my next keyword!

A design entrepreneur with a great sense of humour, who loves fitness, photography and life! A man of substance and intelligence! A fashionable and trendy man!

The above keywords are simple and clear, and can be used by many men as a personal IP positioning!

Thirdly, everything is good except not loving you!

 As I said in the previous article, scum are good at everything! They love cleanliness, they love tidying up, they are honest! If they don't love you, they don't love you! They won't lie, even if they're playing you, and you, I and everyone else understands the feeling! Then the girl will also be willing to be with you! Or separate!

So what we have to do is pay attention to the details. I really like the line in The Godfather: 'Men have to be more careful than women.' As a man, you have to see the bigger picture; otherwise, you'll end up living like a woman, waiting to be led, and you'll only die a miserable death! Many men in life are very coarse and do things on a grand scale. Many people think this is praise, but they don't realise that it's the destruction of a man's place!

A man who is a scumbag is very careful in what he does and knows how to control his emotions. He has great social instincts! Maybe what I mean by 'scumbag' is not scum, but what a real man should do.

Don't reveal your thoughts to others, and don't let women influence your thinking.

- The Godfather

Fourthly, guide women to pay.

This is a skill that must be mastered by private tutors, and White Crane briefly shared it with you today.

If you want to guide a woman to pay, as I mentioned earlier, you must first do a good job of attracting her. Then, step by step, you can guide the girl to pay — it's like water to a duck!

Scum is always easy to make a woman let her guard down. Through WeChat text, you can make a girl fall deeper and deeper. How do you do it? Obedience test: name-calling and flirting.

 Takeaway: offline cinema – 'You treat me to a film, I'll treat you to popcorn'.

Physical Kino: holding hands, nuzzling, kissing and tonguing.

TD Buy: clothes, knitting and holiday gifts.

Popping upgrades: electric wands and other items.

Don't expect a woman to invest in you; accept it willingly. If it's a long-term relationship, keep the level of commitment balanced with availability!