What type of woman should a man look for as a girlfriend?

If you asked boys what kind of girl they should find as a girlfriend, everyone would probably give a different answer.

　　Some like independent, brave women; some like cute, whiny women; some like goddesses with big breasts and thin waists; but some just can't get enough of mediocre-looking, average-bodied teases.

　　In the novel The Return of the Condor Heroes, Zhang Wuji finds that Zhao Min is the most suitable person after being surrounded by many women; in the film Drunken Master, Ma Dongmei is the one that Charlotte should cherish.

　　But not every man is like Zhang Wuji with so many women to choose from. Life is not a film with so many 'ifs' that you can regret.

　　It's not easy to chase a goddess only to find that the other person is not suitable; many people have had this experience. In KTV, singing 'How Much Love Can Start Over' while remembering their ex is also common.

　　Some feelings are destined to remain unspoken; some people are simply not meant to be together.

　　So, what kind of girl should boys find as a girlfriend?

1. Bone structure is more important than a delicate face.

People like beautiful things. When it comes to the appearance of the opposite sex, men are definitely not less particular than women.

　　When you go to the stationery shop to buy a pen, you have to choose the style before you try it; let alone in a relationship. If you're not attractive enough on the outside, who's going to be interested in what you have on the inside?

　　Don't complain that this is the age of appearance; even in the pragmatic last century, matchmakers introduced people by showing them photos.

　　There's nothing wrong with a man pursuing a woman's beauty, but it's important to understand what beauty is. A conical face on Netflix? A big pair of breasts? Or how many layers of chemicals and fluorescent glitter?

　　A woman's beauty should not be limited to an exquisite or impeccable face; it should also be reflected in her lines, silhouette, aura, clothing and how she dresses. Having a beautiful face is certainly a blessing, but it's never something to be proud of.

　　The world is never short of beautiful girls, but 'beautiful' girls are not common.

　　Beautiful girls blindly pursue fashion and trends; beautiful girls know what suits them; beautiful girls see more than just their reflection in the mirror; beautiful girls know that hard work can make up for their lack of natural beauty; beautiful girls throw winks and play with their hair as a signature action; beautiful girls know that books and social experience can enhance their unique temperament. A beautiful girl knows how to enhance her unique temperament through books and social experience.

　　So, boys looking for a girlfriend should not just care about whether she is pretty enough; they should also see whether her personality attracts them. After all, you will get tired of seeing a face like this over time, while a charming temperament will only become more attractive.

2. I don't have to accompany you from poverty to old age, as long as you support me well.

Love is not only dreamed of by women, but by men too.

　　Men hope that even if they have nothing, there will be girls willing to stick with them through thick and thin. But why would a girl want to suffer with you all the time? Why should she live with you for the rest of her life?

　　It's not easy to criticise women on the internet nowadays. As long as a man has no money, his wife will run away with someone else. But why don't you think about the reason and stop blaming everything on 'no money'?

　　In fact, what most girls cannot stand is not your poverty, but your incompetence. You can ask her to stay with you for a year, five years, ten years, or even longer, but you can't ask her to spend her whole life suffering and getting tired, can you?

　　Remember, it's not your poverty that drives them away, but your laziness and incompetence. It's not easy to survive until you graduate from university, but you're idle all day at home, looking down on this and that. What scares them more than poverty is your lack of ambition and your 'getting by' attitude. Year after year, there is no end in sight.

　　If you don't have a clear plan for the future or the willingness to work hard for it, and you do nothing all day but complain, who is going to want to suffer with you?

Guys don't need to find a girl who will suffer with them for the rest of their lives as their girlfriend, because such girls are few and far between. What you need is a girl who understands and supports you, recognises your dreams, respects your efforts, and sticks by you through thick and thin. Even if you don't get together later, such a girl will fill you with emotion and love when you think of her.

3. You have to find a kind person

We used to call the lover as ‘the other half’, which means that in the eyes of others that person is your bilocation.

　　Boys to find a kind girl as a girlfriend, not necessarily to find a philanthropist, not have to go to the countryside to find a missionary girl to express love, just need her to be a kind person.

　　Why do you say that boys should find a kind girl as a girlfriend? Because a kind girl will treat your brothers and friends sincerely. When you play, she will buy you water in addition to water, but also do not forget to bring a bottle to all your brothers; a kind girlfriend, will be filial piety to your parents, will not let you all day sandwiched between her and your mother pain; a kind girlfriend, she will not be so jealous, will not be angry because you buy her a gift is not as expensive as your best friend's boyfriend; a kind girlfriend is not so easy to anger, so she does not For the sake of a little bit of small things will not care about the image and you in the street quarrel.

　　Therefore, the boys to find a kind girl as a girlfriend, to stay away from the appearance of harmless, the years but inside the calculating, like to move right and wrong, love to show off the girl. Find a kind girlfriend, you will also become a kind person, not forgetting the beginning.

4. What you need is to empower the person.

During the most difficult years, you should love someone who empowers you, rather than someone who exhausts you.

　　Love needs to be equal. It's not about you having to do everything, or breaking up; it's not about me finding you and you not being able to appear immediately; it's not about a little dissatisfaction causing a cold war for days.

　　Life won't be easy just because you fell in love, and your career won't automatically take off just because you're dating someone.

　　It's normal for young couples to want to spend all their time together, but some girls won't care about you so much. They won't care if you're busy, if you're working hard, or anything else. Anyway, you always have to put her first.

　　If she says, 'I don't want to go out with your friends', you can only accompany her, and your friends will drift away; if she says, 'I want this, buy it for me', and your salary is not high, you have no choice but to pay the mortgage and car loans, and you will have to save money, even resorting to loan sharks.

　　Therefore, a girlfriend should not be a 'nanny' or a 'princess'.

　　Boys should look for a girlfriend who motivates them, rather than someone who makes them feel pressured and tired.