Flirt with a man until he flirts with you!Capture a man's heart!

One view I've held for a long time is that men are not chased, but attracted by charisma. Two people get to know each other and then get along naturally and pleasantly; after a long time, that feeling becomes clear. Admitting your feelings is not a desperate attempt; it's water under the bridge. So what you have to learn is how to show your charm to him and successfully attract him!

The first step is to establish effective contact.

　　As the saying goes, women chasing men through the veil. If you get this wrong, the veil will also become a mountain. If you want to avoid this, first of all, don't jump on him too quickly. Let him notice you among the vast number of people.

　　Of course, this is based on the premise that you have the potential to attract him and make him feel that you are different and not too easy to chase, otherwise he will soon lose interest in you.

　　Don't wait for him to take the initiative and find you; sometimes you have to create your own opportunities. How do you create opportunities?

　　Understand his preferences and hobbies to create a chance encounter, but be sure to stop after a certain number of times to avoid arousing suspicion.

The second step: the desire to escape.

　　If you and he became ordinary friends or classmates and you want to develop your relationship further, we need to win over his heart.

　　Firstly, don't pester him too much. Make him feel as though you are very close, but actually keep your distance. Hook his interest by being nice to him in all circumstances, but make him feel hot and cold. He will feel that you are special to him.

　　He usually wants to ask you out and drag it out over two or three days. Do not be too eager to rush to the date; being half an hour late shows that you are not desperate. After all, in a relationship, the one who takes the initiative will lose.

　　When you are lusting after a man, be courteous and give him time; he will be defenseless against you.

Step 3: Tease the Heart First

　　Now that your relationship has progressed beyond the level of normal friends, but not quite to the level of close friends, what should you do? This is where a catalyst is needed.

　　Physical, inadvertent contact is the best emotional catalyst. If you don't know him well and he doesn't have feelings for you, you can start by keeping some distance while walking with him.

Step 4: Lead to confession.

　　Go to this step when the two of you are basically in a very good relationship, but have not confirmed it.

　　In this step, you must hold back because the person who confesses becomes the passive party in the relationship. Of course, holding back does not mean doing nothing; this time, we need to guide him to pierce this layer of windowpaper.

　　How do you do this? I have discussed many teaching methods in previous articles; you can choose one that suits you according to your current emotional state. One method is to use a joke-style approach (both in and out).

　　A word of caution: make sure you leave yourself open when using these methods and pay attention to the details.