Bubblews: How do straight men impress each other on a first date?

There are always some overwhelming hardships on the road to a happy relationship.

For example:

Not knowing how to meet girls.

Not knowing how to start a conversation with a girl.

Not knowing how to ask a girl out.

But after overcoming all these problems and successfully asking a girl out, some guys may find it even more difficult.

What should I do when I ask a girl out for the first time? How can I make a good impression on her?

Many guys ask online, “After meeting a girl, why does she never talk to me again?”

In addition to common personal image problems, many guys do not make enough effort to arrange a good date, so the girls cannot feel their sincerity or intimacy, nor the pleasure brought by the date.

For example, when a girl asks, 'Where are we going today?'

The guy replies, 'I don't know.'

In such a situation, the girl must be full of question marks.

No itinerary, no destination: spending the summer in the sun with you, or the winter in the cold wind?

A straight-tempered person might say, 'Next time, don't bother'; a more euphemistic girl might not say anything, but will also find excuses to get out of the next date.

So, will there be a next date? No!

So, how can you make a good impression on a first date and stay in her good books?

Plan the whole date.

You often see examples on the internet of guys saying to make time to meet, and so on.

For hot couples, there is no problem, but for couples who have just met, this is very unfavourable.

It's usually better to have a first date that lasts about 7 hours, as this is a more adequate amount of time compared to a daytime date.

You can eat, watch a film and do other activities together, which gives you more opportunities to get to know each other and show off your charm.

Of course, you also have enough time to see if you and the girl are compatible and if you can continue to get along.

Secondly, the dating process should be as varied as possible.

This means not making it too monotonous or boring; otherwise, not only will it not enhance the relationship, it will also put the girl off.

Plan at least three activities.

If you are not very familiar with each other, scheduling activities that are new to both of you is particularly important.

For example, if you want to eat, you can choose somewhere with unique decorations. Then, if you want to watch a film, you can choose somewhere a little farther away.

On the way there, you can talk about the film you are about to watch and progress to deeper topics. Preference and outlook can also be involved in the conversation.

Every place offers a novel experience.

If you do everything in a shopping mall, your emotional and visual senses will be too fixed in one place, and the sense of freshness will be slightly worse.

The visual experience will be affected by the unity of the shopping mall's decorative style; there will be nothing out of the ordinary to make this a memorable date.

If you don't impress the girl on the first date, she will have a lot less expectation when you invite her again; on the contrary, if you impress her, she will have a lot of expectation when you invite her again.

On the contrary, if a girl has high expectations, love is almost guaranteed.

Thirdly, physical contact:

On a date, some boys will want to hold hands with the girl or even kiss her to enhance the relationship, which is not impossible, but you must choose the right time and be sensitive to the girl's feelings.

It is important to choose the right time and to be sensitive to the girl's state of mind.

If you rashly grab the girl's hand or try to kiss her, you may get slapped. (The police will make you regret your actions.)

When dating, pave the way for each other's emotions. If you are crossing the road with someone, you can gently hold their hand to help them cross safely, which is neither frivolous nor thoughtless.

When things are more ambiguous, kissing is also logical.

Finally, after the first date, be a gentleman and send the girl home! (What about taking her home and sitting down in a hotel?)

On the date, some boys will want to hold hands with the girl or even kiss her to enhance the relationship. This is fine, but choose the right time and consider the girl's feelings.

However, it is important to choose the right time and consider the girl's feelings.

If you rashly grab the girl's hand or try to kiss her, you may get slapped. (The police officer said that if you play hooliganism, you will be in more trouble).

When dating, pave the way for each other's emotions. If you are crossing the road with people or cars, you can gently hold the girl's hand to help her cross the road; this is neither frivolous nor thoughtless.

When things are more ambiguous, kissing is also logical.

Finally, after the first date, be a gentleman and send the girl home! (Don't take her home to sit down next to a hotel or anything like that.)