So, how exactly do you flirt with a girl?

Recently, a younger brother has always asked me how to tease a girl. I hope to share more practical examples, as there is a gap between theory and practice. Many people cannot understand specific implementation due to a lack of capacity.

Knowledge point 1: Boys should control the pace.

The previous girl said she couldn't eat shrimp, so I came up with this idea: I'll be responsible for eating and you can peel them. When the boys were halfway through, the girls started talking about something else and asked if they had eaten durian.

At this point, most of the boys thought they should respond to the girls' words. In fact, this is a way for them to assert their dominance in the conversation. However, it is unnecessary to respond to every word a girl says. Of course, it's not that girls deliberately don't respond when you speak, but when you are talking about your own things, girls suddenly ask you something irrelevant. You should follow their rhythm.

Knowledge Point 2: Flirting

When boys see their favourite girls, they often become very honest and humble. Girls simply do not dare to flirt.

Flirting with girls is a great way to tell the honest ones from the masters.

The trick lies in treating the girl like a little sister, bearing in mind that most men, when confronted with a girl they like, will see her as a goddess – and how can a goddess be flirted with? Goddesses are for worshipping. Put bluntly, many boys cannot find their position when they encounter their favourite girl, unconsciously putting themselves in a very low position and thus not daring to do things that would go against the 'pursuit' of her.

Knowledge point 3: unexpected

The unexpected is funny, not the normal. If you want to chat and be funny, you have to understand the principle of humour, i.e. the law of 129.

Firstly, this law states that the general order of normal human logic is 1, 2, 3. The law of 129 creates the effect of unexpected common sense by making people think that 3 will come after 1, 2 when the topic suddenly changes to 9. This creates laughter by surprising people!

Congratulations on winning the title of China's Best Sister (in fact, it's an even closer relationship).

When you go out in future, mention my name and you will be protected (this is what a normal person would do).

I directed it to 9, which is basically useless.

Knowledge Point 4: Push and Pull

The girl above is said to have hit me. This time, we have to learn to push her away. You are too violent; we are not compatible.

Many guys in the chatroom will be difficult to please. It's important to understand that a relationship between two people is not about forcing things forward, but rather like a train's power arm moving back and forth to create forward momentum. So, when you push her away, she will feel that you are not pursuing her or catering to her every need. You also have your standards and principles.

But always remember to pull back after pushing! Push and pull: push is to unload the sense of need; pull is to ensure the relationship between the two people is not damaged.

Although the phrase seems to imply pushing, there is actually an implied pulling, and it's a more abstract pulling – the guy is pulling her into the framework of whether we are right for each other. Though the apparent action is pushing, it is actually pulling the relationship forward. When you push a girl away moderately, she will stick up for you instead — guys like it simple and rough.

In the second sentence, I am still exploring the idea of whether we are suitable for each other, and I am still pushing her away — breaking up, loving her (there is also a small push and pull here), and setting out my standards — I like gentle!

Knowledge Point 5: Be firm but indifferent.

Many men have fragile hearts and cannot withstand a girl's tests and trials. Their attitude always wavers, but a man of true value will not change his views according to a girl's mood.