Replicable secrets for chatting and flirting with girls in real life.

People who don't know how to chat often look online for all kinds of chat skills, but these may work well for others and be difficult for you to emulate, and you may even find them strange. Girls can obviously notice these situations, but they just don't say anything.

In reality, we don't know how to use the routine or technique at the right time.

To learn how to chat, you first need to understand the differences between men and women.

Men and women think very differently. Men and women not only communicate differently, but also think, feel, perceive, react and confess differently.

Women tend to focus on feelings, so they are willing to put more energy into things or people that spark their curiosity.

Men may not pay as much attention to this, and if you don't talk about it, they'll quickly lose interest. Therefore, when chatting, it is important to stimulate girls' curiosity and allow them to experience mood swings.

Therefore, to pick up girls, you must first win their hearts, so that they really enjoy chatting with you, slowly grow to rely on you, and fall in love with you.

Next, we will share excellent knowledge and chatting skills to help you pick up girls. Let's learn together.

Reproducible chat secret: chat psychological warfare.

1. In the emotional climax, there is a sudden interruption.

Many boys who are interested in girls will try to please them, pestering them to talk and chatting with them until they fall asleep. However, they also do not dare to take the initiative to end the conversation.

In fact, this is a very wrong way of thinking. At the beginning, you should not keep the girl talking, but rather let her feel unsatisfied and stop chatting at the right time.

During the conversation, you can suddenly stop when it's at its most exciting and say, “Sorry, my friend needs me urgently. I'll help him with it first.” Alternatively, you could say, "The boss just contacted me about some important work that needs doing. You should get some rest; we can talk again tomorrow.'

At this point, the girl will still be immersed in her emotions, and pulling out suddenly will make her feel 'not finished'.

However, if you withdraw in a polite and reasonable way, her momentary dissatisfaction will make her want to talk to you more and expect more from you.

If you make her feel like she hasn't had enough, she'll miss your chats and probably go back and look at them.

However, achieving this requires confidence and self-control, as well as the mindset to leave and some measured judgement.

Misuse:

After a WeChat chat, say 'yes' to the girl and then don't reply, turn off your phone and go to sleep.

There are many similar routines, such as 'I have something to tell you' and 'I want to tell you a secret'.

Some people say that this kind of practice will make the girl not forget you. All I can say is that this idea comes from the straight man of steel himself. If it happens once or twice, it might work. But if you do it repeatedly, the girl will just want to cut you off.

2. Ignite the girl's imagination!

You can keep giving her what she expects, but don't rush to do so; let her amplify the vision in her own mind. Women are creatures of fantasy.

For example, if you talk about a singer she likes, she might mention a song she hasn't heard. If you know the name of the song, say something like, “I'll look for it tomorrow and send it to you when I find it, haha!”

This stalling gives her a sense of delayed gratification and makes her look forward to hearing from you.

If you want to ask her out, say, 'I'm going to take you to a very interesting place. I won't tell you where yet — you'll find out when we get there.'

Let her imagine where you're going to take her and make her look forward to the date.

3. Chatting: Don't just talk about things.

Make a girl's mood swing.

Many guys can chat steadily and consistently, but why not take the relationship further?

If that's enough to win a girl's heart, then she must have something else in mind for you.

Don't be too rigid when chatting. Answer whatever the other person asks you. Chatting should be interesting and provide practical and emotional value. Emotional value means mobilising the other person's emotions so that their mind completely follows your words and their emotions constantly fluctuate. This way, not only can you read her inner thoughts, but you can also make her feel curious and interested in your conversation.

Secondly, the process of picking up girls.

Role-playing:

This involves bringing common roles into the chat, a bit like cosplay. Common roles include bosses and employees, teachers and students, and so on. However, although role-playing is a virtual scene, the emotions experienced during the chat are real. Pay attention to role-playing: you have to play the role of a strong frame, and role-playing should be based on the chatting scene you create.

For example, if you are chatting with a girl, you could play the roles of teacher and student. The girl says, “This baby is the cutest.” You could reply: “Student, you are so cute. Let the teacher pinch your little cheeks.” This makes the relationship more ambiguous.

Set 2: Good at faking things.

Xunzi said, ‘Gentlemen are not born different; good fakes are also born.’ A girl should also be good at using external forces. For example, she should be good at saying serious things and creating sexual tension.

For example:

Woman: ‘I've been working overtime, I'm so tired.’

Man: 'Isn't that taking advantage of the new employees at your company? If you don't work overtime, I'll treat you to a nice meal."

Man: 'You should try leaving work early in future. Working too much overtime not only affects your metabolism, it also affects your sex drive.' (Then add a naughty emoji.)

Or:

Woman: 'I'm going to the gym later.'

MAN: ‘Then remember to stretch after your workout, but don't work on your back.’

Woman: ‘Why?’

MAN: 'That way, the chest will be deformed by the exercise.'

Set 3: Take notes.

When chatting to a girl on WeChat, if she mentions what she likes or doesn't like to eat, open a memo and take notes. Do this and you'll be seen as a warm man, but not yet a master of the art of chatting up girls. Make notes, take a screenshot and send it to her. Then gently ask, 'Is there anything you missed?'

You can also record information about her other hobbies and little minefields to show her.

Routine 4: Hush and warm.

Some brothers might think this is cheesy, but consider how the weather has been lately. It's often windy and rainy. The temperature difference between morning and evening is big, and many girls who wear too little will catch a cold in the cold wind. At this time, a brother can tell her through the screen to keep warm and take care of herself. She'll be in a much better mood than if she drank ten cups of ginger tea.

So check the weather forecast and tell her, 'Dress appropriately. Someone cares about you.'

I shared so many tips on chatting with my brothers today. I hope you can understand and put them into practice. Don't just look at them and leave it; make sure you put them into action. Reading and learning are not the same thing, especially when it comes to emotions. Women are not machines; they have their own thought processes, so we have to constantly adapt our approach.