Tips for Chatting with Girls Who Are Highly Emotional

Not knowing what to say is a common problem for men in everyday communication.

After saying a few friendly words to a girl, I don't know what to say next. This makes the atmosphere awkward. The girl will also think that you are boring and uninterested, and that you have no feelings for her at all.

So, how can we break the awkwardness of not being able to find something to talk about? We need to change the way we think and communicate with each other.

1.Firstly, she loves to hear loving words.

Girls are generally more reserved, sensitive and delicate, so they especially like to hear those loving words because they are romantic by nature. Some loving words will make them feel very moved. Boys in relationships with girls may as well say the things that girls love to hear to attract them. Boys may wish to look to film, television or literature for inspiration. The love words in these sources are carefully distilled by writers and can be very effective. If you watch films or read novels, you can learn more about love stories and then tell them to your girlfriend, who will be very touched.

2. Praise her words.

People like to listen to good words; it's human nature. Everyone wants affirmation from others, and girls are no exception. So, masters like to praise girls often. Words like these will naturally make girls happy, and they will also feel that a man who appreciates them is a confidant for life. Naturally, this kind of man is extraordinary, so boys may wish to look for more advantages to praise girls. After all, everyone has many advantages, and as long as you look closely enough, you can find many advantages in girls. As long as boys are good at observing, they will be able to make girls happy. Of course, boys can also praise girls by paying attention to details, such as complimenting them on a pair of earrings they are wearing today. You could say, 'These earrings really suit you; you have great taste', and so on. Girls will naturally be happy to hear this.

3. Gossiping

If you don't know what to talk about when chatting with girls, you could talk about celebrity gossip or other gossip topics. These will naturally spark girls' interest, so boys should accumulate material in this area in their everyday lives. This will help them to chat with girls and spark their interest in these topics. Once they are interested, they will want to understand the causes, consequences and subsequent developments of these topics.

1）. Start looking for topics from hobbies.

This will help you to understand her taste in films. After seeing this kind of film, you will be able to communicate and exchange ideas more easily, and this girl will feel that she has found a confidant. Secondly, we can chat about one of her hobbies and see if she has any others.

For example, there are many girls who like to play the current popular game Chicken and the Glory of the King. Eating chicken and the glory of the king is a puzzle game, so if you play this game well, you can talk about it with her.

2).You can also help them upgrade and complete challenges, which will make them like you more. You can discuss heroes like Lu Ban and Hou Yi and their skills, which will give you a common language to express yourself.

Secondly, we can find topics based on life experience.

We can talk about our life experiences and interests, such as food, snacks, or pets. Or do we like snacks or small animals?

There are many things in life, so if we are going to live in this area, we should definitely start with food. What kind of milk tea do you like? Where is the best place for milk tea, chicken or mutton soup?

In this way, you will feel more special and be recommended to the girl as someone more delicious. Then she will also recommend you, so that you can communicate better with each other.

3). Chat participants can choose a common topic.

Why do you say so? Because when we chat with girls, we must consider her current situation, emotions and how much time we have. We can't chat for too long.

We have to chat about some of her favourite topics and then proceed to communicate with her in depth. She may not be very understanding or willing to talk to you and may not know how to answer you, so chatting up can be awkward and there is no further progress.

Then, if you choose to talk about the same common topics, you will chat more and more. While chatting, we have to control the time. If it goes on for too long, the chat will become meaningless.

We can't always go to her. Girls think that if they always chat with me, it will give them ideas about me or what I think of them, and this can cause misunderstandings. A good colleague relationship could become negative, so we have to learn how to chat.

4). Be good at listening and expressing opinions.

Sometimes, when chatting, you may find it difficult to know what to reply. You can express your own point of view and share your experiences and stories. In sharing, you will also lead to new topics, which you can then chat about. This can avoid awkward chatting and encourage people to reveal more about themselves. It is also a kind of vulnerability, which can let girls know more about you and help you to quickly establish a degree of comfort with each other. Of course, you don't have to share your own experiences; you can let the girl talk about hers. This requires some chat skills, and here's a tip to help you. If you want the girl to tell you more, use the empathy technique to make her feel understood, and she will talk to you more. Of course, don't interrupt when you're listening; just interact and show recognition occasionally. If you chat like this, there won't be any awkward silences.

5). Break the tension.

Many brothers chat to girls; it's not that he doesn't know how, it's that he's too nervous and his ego is getting in the way. Why is there tension? It is because many boys set a goal when pursuing girls, which is to make them their girlfriend. He becomes very careful in later conversations and wants to appear perfect in front of the girl. He is afraid that if he says the wrong thing, he won't be good enough, and the girl won't like him or will leave him. This leads to them hesitating before replying to each other in the chat and feeling nervous about what to say. To break this tension, you need to get your mind right.

Here are a few tips. Firstly, don't set goals; just treat girls as ordinary friends.

Secondly, don't try to make the girl look beautiful; it's OK to think she's ugly, to maintain balance.

Thirdly, build confidence. Third, build your confidence and transfer it to others.

Fourth, chat with the girls. Follow these steps to break the tension in the conversation and ensure it doesn't feel cold.

Brothers and sisters:

What's a good topic to talk about when you first meet? It's best not to talk about parents in case they are separated or divorced, as this could cause her displeasure. A good topic to talk about is siblings. Talking about siblings can deepen understanding and liven up the atmosphere. Showing an interest in her family also demonstrates your interest in her and makes it easier to win her trust.